What can you see inside Museum of Broken Relationships?
The Museum of Broken Relationships began as a personal question asked by two Zagreb artists after their own relationship ended in 2003: what should we do with the objects that belonged to us together? Olinka Vištica and Dražen Grubišić decided to exhibit them. The first travelling exhibition opened in 2006 and immediately attracted donations — strangers handing over objects with handwritten stories attached, trusting the museum to handle their experiences with care. By 2010, when the permanent museum opened in Zagreb's 18th-century Kulmer Palace in the Gornji Grad district, the collection had grown to encompass donated objects from across Europe and beyond.
The museum's formal recognition came in 2011, when the European Museum Forum awarded it the Kenneth Hudson Award for Europe's most innovative and daring museum. The prize acknowledged what the museum's visitors had already understood: that an institution based on donated personal objects and anonymous stories had found a way to address experiences — grief, loss, the end of love, the complicated aftermath of endings — that most museums avoid entirely. The award placed the Museum of Broken Relationships alongside institutions with permanent collections worth billions and stated, in the language of the museum world, that sincerity and originality count for as much as resources.
The collection itself resists easy description. Objects range from the mundane to the extraordinary: a prosthetic leg donated by a woman whose partner left her while she was recovering from a sports injury; a toaster representing a domestic relationship that outlasted the romance; a garden gnome purchased during a holiday that ended in argument; wedding photographs from a marriage that lasted nine months. Each object sits in its display case with a label carrying the donor's anonymous account — a paragraph of plain prose that refuses sentimentality without denying emotion. The cumulative effect across a museum visit is something between reading a great short story collection and attending a memorial service: you emerge having encountered strangers' lives at their most vulnerable and most human.
Beyond Zagreb, the museum's travelling exhibitions have visited over 60 cities on six continents, assembling new local collections in each destination. The Los Angeles exhibition included donations from Hollywood. The Tokyo collection reflected the particular Japanese culture of objects and endings. The travelling format has made the Museum of Broken Relationships the most internationally distributed contemporary museum concept originating in the former Yugoslavia — an achievement that would have seemed implausible in 2003 when two Zagreb artists were standing in a studio wondering what to do with a toaster.